„You don’t really fit in… You don’t fit into the group of normal people, because you’re anorectic. And you don’t fit with those affected by anorexia, because you’re a man.“ – Thomas, 21. Our process always started with a conversation. What does it look like, your mental cage? What do you feel, see, think, hear, taste and smell? And where shall we go to take that picture of it? For more than a year I accompanied eleven men* affected by anorexia, bulimia and binge eating. Being well-acquainted with the topic myself, I was wondering: what is it like to be affected by an eating disorder as a male? Very often, it was shocking to listen. Yet, together with journalist Ruben de Theije, we kept drilling towards the true conflicts in the intersection of social expectations and big emotions; conflicts that lie at the heart of the stories they wanted to tell.